A personal AI matchmaker · starting in Lisbon
Less searching.
More living.
Tell your matchmaker what a good relationship looks like for you — once, in your own words. Then go live your life. PAI quietly searches and comes back only when there is a thoughtful introduction worth your time, and a real date to arrange.
Thoughtful introductions, a date you both agreed on, and your evenings back.
Coming soon to the App Store for iPhone and iPad. Dates are free during launch.
How it works
Three steps, designed around your time — not your screen time.
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Tell your matchmaker
Speak or type with PAI about your relationship goals, everyday habits and the qualities you value. Everything it understands is shown back to you to review and edit — nothing is assumed behind your back.
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Review a thoughtful introduction
PAI keeps searching while you live your life. When there is a credible match — up to three, sometimes none — you see a short, honest profile and the concrete reasons this person fits what you asked for.
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Meet in real life
If you both want to meet, you share the times that suit you and the PAI team proposes a first date at a public place. It is confirmed when you both accept the same plan. Afterwards, private feedback helps your matchmaker search better — or step aside.
The details that matter — on your terms
Attraction and everyday life are part of real compatibility. PAI lets you say so plainly, and keeps it private.
Optional, always yours to control
Physical attraction, food and drink habits, vegan or vegetarian living, exercise and yoga, smoking, and family goals are optional preferences. You decide what to share, what counts as essential versus nice-to-have, and you can change or remove any of it at any time.
Private by default
Sensitive preferences are used only to search on your behalf. They are never shown publicly, never turned into a score of your looks, and never quietly loosened to fill your screen with candidates.
Respectful waiting, honest introductions
PAI searches every few hours and introduces only people who genuinely fit what you both asked for. When nobody fits yet, it tells you plainly and keeps looking — you can adjust your preferences, pause, or simply get on with your week.
Notifications arrive only when they are useful: a new introduction, mutual interest, or a date to confirm.
Other members see only the short profile and reviewed photos you approved. Your conversations, private preferences and location stay with you.
Export your data or delete your account from the app at any time. Read the Privacy Policy for the details.
Free during launch
Creating your profile, talking to your matchmaker, introductions and arranged dates are all free while PAI launches.
€0 for every arranged date during launch
- Included: matchmaking, mutual-interest confirmation and a first-date plan at a public place.
- Your own: food, drinks and transport.
- Always clear: if a fee is introduced later, you will see it before you accept a plan — never as a surprise.
Trust and practical safety
Public places
Every date plan is at a public place, agreed by both of you. Your home or work address is never part of a plan.
Adults, reviewed
PAI is for adults 18 and over. Our team reviews photos before anyone is introduced.
Report and block
Report or block at every step. Blocking works instantly, and our team reviews every report.
Your plans, your call
Decline or cancel any date without explaining yourself. For immediate danger, contact local emergency services (112 in the EU).
Questions, answered honestly
Where can I use PAI?
PAI is starting in Lisbon so that introductions lead to real dates nearby. The app is coming soon to the App Store for iPhone and iPad.
How do we talk before the date?
PAI keeps it simple: once you both want to meet, you share available times and accept the same date plan. The real conversation happens in person. After the date you can exchange contact details if you both agree.
What if PAI can’t find anyone for me?
Then you’ll see exactly that — quiet, honest waiting. PAI only introduces people who fit what you marked as essential, and it never quietly relaxes those requirements.
Does the AI decide who I date?
You decide. PAI suggests and explains; every suggestion about your profile is shown to you to confirm, and a date happens only when both people accept the same plan.
Who sees my preferences about attraction and lifestyle?
Only you. They are optional and used to search on your behalf. See the Privacy Policy.
How do I get help?
Email pai.support@byalif.app or visit Support.
Meet someone worth your time
PAI is coming soon to the App Store for iPhone and iPad, starting in Lisbon.